Warning Signs To Watch Out For When Dating Men That Are Wasting Your Precious Time 2020 Rules.

Dating For Black Women

The most worrying thing black women have to face in 2020 is to realize that dating will never be like back in the day.

Chivalry is dead ladies The days when men use to pick up the bill on dates and open doors are completely out the door. What is considered dating now are one night stands and women paying 50 50 on dates.

I do understand that men want us to meet them half way but the question I still have on my naive mind is why are women still dating men in 2020 if they still have to pay for everything?

I would say that women should stop dating a man that won’t even open your door to be honest not to mention foot the bill on the first date. If he can’t invest in you then it ain’t worth your time. If that’s dating in 2020 then it’s better to stay single.

Dating in 2020

Warning Signs To Watch Out For When Dating That Men Are Wasting Your Precious Time.

1. They Desperately Ask You On A Date Only When You Do Go On The Date They Are More Interested In Themselves.

It seems like some of these men love to waste a woman’s time. I honestly believe they think we have nothing else to do more than wait on them. Why else would you plead for someone to go out with you only to be on a date and you be acting like the person is the one who asked you out . They are more interested in their phone conversation. If that’s what’s happening on your date walk out of the date.

Sometimes as females we get distracted by how cute he is when to be honest looks are just not what we should be paying attention to.

What should matter ladies is his personality and how well he respects and treat you. If he doesn’t treat you well on the first date then tell that boy bye.

2. If He Ain’t Asking You Questions About Your Likes Or Trying To Get To Know You

We All know that dates can be fun if you find the right person to peak your interest sometimes on dates you can get nervous because you finally get to go out with that hot sexy ass guy who lives a few blocks from you but he ain’t asking lots of curious questions then your date might be shallow so you know it’s time to ditch.

3.Never Pay On Dates

Their are a lot arguments that women should go 50 50 on dates I think this is all a plan for men to excuse themselves from what they were told to do from the beginning of time ;to be providers. If a man doesn’t even want to pay for a date don’t even continue the date.Its better to stay single then and pay for own stuff then.

4.Spotting Emotional Abusers Redflag Alert

There are so many fake men out here acting like the are pro women when they are women haters. You can spot a narcissist the first time we just need to see camouflage he uses the first time.

If a guy is being way too friendly to you complimenting you too much as though he was buttering you up . Then Excuse your presence immediately because your in the presence of a narcissist and you should abort the rest of the date.If you are talking to a guy and you feel like you have to defend what you are saying then he is a narcissist.

One of the worst things that can happen to a black woman is a selfish and fake man who has worked his way in your life to destroy your confidence, your emotions and your pockets.

5. Be An Age Hater No Sugar Papi

If you are an old soul this might be you dating old guys your dad’s age . For the love of your youth don’t you dare date a Sugar Papi. First of all you have daddy issues and second of all he sugaring you up to be your worst nightmare please don’t do that to your life.

You should never let this be your goal all you are doing is setting up yourself for failure and for a manipulative relationship. Older men who are looking to date their daughter kind of guy. This is not the way to go.

If You follow these steps you will find the right guy . You will be better prepared on dates and you never meet another player ever.

Self Defense For Women In 2020

Learning To Defend Ourselves In 2020.

This article is my opinion I’m not no expert just sharing real concerns about real life issues.

2020 has been such a fast and shocking year.

We are evolving in technology and also men are becoming less human.

Could it be that men don’t have a need for females anymore? There are so many hate crimes happening against women , black women are the targets 100 percent of the time. The real issue here is are women really safe in today’s society of men who love assaulting women?

There as been a video circulating on Twitter of a black woman who is from Atlanta who was being harassed by a group of black men at a drag race show.

It as gone viral , I wonder if people believe that harassment sexual at that is normal. I think some people think that this is okay.

How can this be normal to grope a female that doesn’t know you or cares to be your girlfriend?

The more we think that society is changing for the better with human rights groups and movements it seems that some people just don’t care. They still sexualize and treat women like objects to the point where I’m wondering if women should need a license to carry a firearm instead they should make it mandatory and start making it compulsory for young ladies to get self defense training in high schools.

Women should be empowered in this era not degraded . They should feel safe, free to walk they should not live in fear because they choose to go out with a friend at night. There seems to be a culture developing to target black women . It’s becoming so normal that when a woman stands up for her rights she’s asking for it or she’s a bitch and deserves what’s coming to her. How can the right thing become so taboo; standing up for your rights is your birth right as a human .

Women should defend themselves against any threat to their mental and physical lives.

Here are a few things that should take place in 2020.

Self Defense 101

Men Teach Your Daughters And Wife To Defend Themselves.

If a man loves his family truly wants them to be safe you should start teaching them self defense or send them to self defense class.

It’s a different world mankind is evil and men are getting kicks off rape, violence and disrespect of women in general. Women should learn to attack if being attacked and know that she should never trust a group of men on the street.

Don’t leave it up to gated communities alone to protect your princess. You want your daughters safe. Buy the necessary tools to keep your daughter safe teach her how to use it .

Women Who Are Single Protect Your Home’s

Learning how to prepare for a war should be apart of your motto. Arm yourself with pepper spray, and other self defense tools will mean a matter of life and death.

People are out here trying to take a woman’s freedom and safety because they are dealing with their own demons of hating themselves.

Don’t leave it to the cops alone to make you safe anything can happen so buy what’s need to be safe. Get Surveillance cameras, a security system whatever is needed to make your self safe it’s a cold world so don’t let the evil world devour you .

Think Ahead And Use Your Intuition

I have got to say that a lot of times we get an instinct about things as women and we think we are being paranoid. When if we followed what our minds were showing us we would have avoided the predator.

When you go out ladies never be nonchalant about anything always be aware of your environment. Never accept alcohol from strangers or even so called friends. This is the number one rule you should adapt, you just never know whose got some evil agenda.

Never drink over what your body is able to take. Always ensure that you have a friend you can trust with you.

If you are at a party and you start feeling unsafe leave.

Get Armored

If You Are Being Harassed Or Threatened

Report it to the police if you notice any bad behavior being sent your way video it with your phone and write down the time , the offenders license plates if possible.

If you are in your car and you notice anything suspicious or you have a flat tire I suggest you stay in your car or call someone who can’t assist quickly.

These are some of the things you should consider when you are out or when at home. Always be alert, keep safe ladies and remember the world can be safe if you learn to protect yourself from it.