There as been a lot of celebrities that have been canceled lately because of personal opinions and statements that they have said that have cause controversy.

One Celeb that hits this list is Wilding Out Comedian B-Simone . There has been hate and shade thrown her way since she has made the statement that she doesn’t want a man that work a regular 9-5. The whole black misogynistic men community started dragging her on a couple of social platforms and I was trying to figure out why can’t a young beautiful and smart black women like that have a particular standard that she lives by.

Can’t black women have a preference, because I really can’t see anything potentially wrong with her saying what she prefers.

For black women they expect us to have no rules or standards so they can criticize and say a lot of derogatory and demeaning things about her; whilst a mixed women who looks Caucasian, Dominican or any other race gets a pass because that’s the race of woman that is regarded as a treasure.

We keep seeing the hypocrisy in the way that black men treat other races of women and it leads me to wonder. Why do we keep expecting any better?

I think this whole entire issue is stemming from slavery actually it sounds weird but apart of why black men are hostile towards black females is coming from our slave past, the fact that they hate themselves and also that we are still in an age where racism prevails.

Black women however, should not lower there standards because of this if we start raising the bar we weed out men that won’t value us or treat us the way we should be treated.

Even to women if they see us as having standards they look at us in a high regard.It is essential for a black woman to live by rules and guidelines at the end of the day she will wear that crown when she has standards.

In concluding we as women should hold our standards that we live by we should not fall into the trap to believe that we deserve less than anyone . If you see yourself as a queen who deserves the best then we should do what’s best for us never listen to a black man’s hate or any other person who is struggling with themselves. Do what makes you happy and respect yourself enough to have rules that you live by.

You will be considered has having more value than any other female that don’t.

This topic is a bit controversial but its should be addressed exactly how it is. There is so many people who would say that my opinion is wrong but if you think deeply about what is said you will realize how much this advice is saving your life.

Being a baby mama myself I have learnt from experience that men are liars and they will say anything in the heat of the moment but their actions never correspond with what they say. Black women have always been told to hold a black man down , we are even been programmed by television that struggle Love is okay . I remember shows like Love & Basketball

That Sana Lathan’s character never ended up with her struggle love partner even though she was his ride or die chick.

Never have unprotected sex with a man unless he is married to you.

Black men will use black women has stepping stones to reach his goals even if he really don’t like dark skinned women .Some men’s ultimate goal in life is to have as much baby mama’s in life as possible even when they cannot afford to take care of them all. Which in my case that has happened to me I was so deceived that I made this man and his family member steal my money .

It’s a sad reality we should all learn but not by making the same mistake I did as my naive self made six years ago.

I made this blog for young women to not make the same mistakes I did and hope that you will learn from them.

My narcissistic baby daddy had the opportunity of not only making me baby mama number three but also pimping me out in the process .

I was just too naive and foolish that I make this man ruin my life and opportunities .

I know what your about to say here is another example of a bitter baby mama . If you only could take a step in my shoes you would see the real picture.

If A Man says he has one baby mama avoid him like the plague.

I know young women are suppose to be smart but In my case I avoided all the signs that I was given that this budding new relationship was sending me into destruction.

Not Only did he have a one baby mama but he had two .

He also lied to me about his real age when I first met him . Every time a man will lie about personal details of his life such as his age and his height (Big Ed lied to Rose about his height ) it is a sure indicator that he his not to be trusted, they are usually manipulative and narcissistic which I soon found out later that this man was.

There is a lot of baggage that comes with men that already have children they will never treat you with the respect you deserve and everything will revolve around them trying everything in their power to break you.

Their children and family will always try to make everything about them . Don’t take this the wrong way but often when a man have children if they have step moms they often try to get rid of them by any means. They usually want their dad with their mom.

Not to mention how everyone in their life would come first before you do. You will never win , these men never date because of love they date because they just want to spread their self around and have a lot of children.

Just follow my foolish advice and date someone with no children you won’t have to worry about these issues.

Divorced Men Are Also A No No.

This is like saving yourself from dating someone with the most flaws but try to paint you as the person with all the flaws. Never date a divorced man they always have a history of being cheaters . They also don’t know how to love because they always end up with a new partner. It’s as if the cycle keeps repeating itself he always have to find another female to love and marry when he can’t even love himself.

If he makes you wife number two you will always in his mind be the last option and nothing that you need is ever a priority.

Respect yourself enough to get someone who has never married who sees you has his world and puts you first at all cost.

The only way a woman should ever date a man that’s been married prior is if his wife died.

That is a completely different story.

Your life should never be filled with putting everything above yourself , you should be first priority and if your not first priority you should not be in that relationship . Also learn that you should never try to be the one that fixes a man he will never change unless he want to change.

This is should be some things you should consider when your dating always keep these things in mind.

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There are so many people that are whose mental health is being questioned as this point since the 2020 Virus hit.

There behavior has become more than abnormal making you wonder if they are suffering from some madness. A good example of this is ‘Lovely Peaches’ that Ig /stalker girl who has been going to celebrities houses like Bhad bhabie and Malu Trevejo who Peaches says she broke into Malu’s house and stole her lace panties .

Malu denies it was her home she broke into when she spoke to Peaches while on Malu’s live ;Lovely Peaches decided to flash her genitals to Malu .

Malu is not even 16 years old and Peaches decided to do that. Not to mention her weird behavior before she flashed Malu. Telling Malu she loved her and saying that she was in her house. Even laughing hysterically and slapping herself. If that’s not mental illness I don’t know what is. Where does this behavior say normal and people who are followers of this crazy chick not realizing she has crazy written all over her.

How do you identify mental illness? These are all the signs of it really.Lovely Peaches has been showing us she needs help from the very first time she decided to curse her baby out on one of her lives and if people think that’s funny maybe you have a mental illness yourself. That can not be a joke I mean who does that she went has far has slut shaming a young baby and saying she wants her child to be raped by grown men how can that be normal.

When does morals count at this point , if you are doing that for fans or likes how can that be something you see has funny? A lot of people are walking around with mental illness but the quarantine and isolation has been letting us realize who really are crazy for reals and whose not.

I know people have to be staying home but that’s no excuse for craziness this is just telling you been already crazy in these streets. How to know if someone’s crazy ?

It’s not that hard to figure out, their behavior is not what normal people like in the case of ‘Lovely Peaches’ she really needs help.

For regular people staying at home is not going to drive you to madness unless you have underlying mental illness in your family. I don’t know of covid driving people crazy at all so why are we acting like it drives people nuts.

I think we can find ways to keep our minds occupied whether at home or not. You can learn how to meditate that’s a wonderful way of channeling calm and focus.

Keeping your mind occupied is also good focus on activities that are positive and doesn’t encourage evil.

A lot of you here things in your head that are bad and the first thing you do is think that’s your thought and you should do it. When thoughts are just thoughts because you think It doesn’t mean you should act on it .

Do breathing exercises as well a part of meditation encourages breathing in and out exercises this really helps.

Regular exercises can also help your mental help so try it and don’t let bad thoughts overcome the good thoughts . Stay in the light.

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“This is not a test, this is your emergency broadcast system announcing the commencement of the annual purge….” lines from the movie The Purge .

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This 2020 has me wondering if we about to take on a serious blood shed orchestrated by the government. Why do I feel like this? Well if no one has noticed we have a new killer virus going around.

With the current state of the world , with this virus pandemic that has been spreading; one has to wonder how we got here and will the world ever be the same again. It is said that this virus simulates the common cold symptoms and it is strange to know that it has similarities to the flu.The Only difference is it causes serious respiratory failure and then may result in death.

There has been a lot of theories about this virus being manmade since it doesn’t have a vaccine or a cure. Not to mention the origins of it being from China. Which has caused a lot of controversy has their has been a lot of race wars surrounding the virus and people from China being ostracized for being Chinese and Chinese nationals returning the same bad treatment to their non Chinese immigrants and visitors.

It is so disturbing that this virus has caused so much hate. People have become so afraid that even a sneeze has them on edge.

A lot of people have experience different things since the virus has hit even the death of family members, being placed in isolation by their government and unable to get the basics because of the high number of empty supermarkets shelves and even a shortage in certain medications that they need. This adding to anxiety of the future.

Has Women How Do We Stay Hopeful For The Future?

Women are always going to react differently to any crisis . We should all stay hopeful and practice good hygiene practices by washing our hands frequently, and carrying other personal hygiene items like hand sanitizer with us when it is necessary but the most important thing we should really be doing at this time is staying at home.

This will end the spread of the virus.It may seem like their is only one way that this will all end but keep on hoping good thoughts for the future even though it’s look like the future isn’t so bright.

Nothing ever comes from negative thinking so keep your thoughts positive. Our darkest days are almost over we will beat this.

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In today’s society of Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, Twitter and Tik Tok there is so many things that we might realize about Social Media That is completely different from real life.

There are so many things that you can do now to alter how things might look. With Instagram you can change how your pictures look with different apps.

Not to mention the many filters they provide to make your pictures look glam.Women are the most influenced by social media with all these apps that can change our appearance this can really affect our view of ourselves.Not to mention the immense pressure one feels to look exactly like others females on the app. If you don’t have a very curvy figure with super flat stomach then your not the ultimate it-girl.

There is so much pressure to fit in an unrealistic mold that the most affected group of women would be young women.Young black women come under so much pressure constantly that it makes you wonder if 14-18 year olds should be using social media?

Even with all the negative concerns about social media affecting young girls there are some positive things to this tool of entertainment.

There are a lot of fakes on social media however;people have become really successful using it.There are many rags to total riches stories through becoming influencers .

There are so many ways you can make income you just need to find the secret recipes to making money on these platforms.

Other positive things about social media is ;it can be a confidence booster.Knowing that you got a certain amount of likes on a picture but it can also be addictive.It really is like get injected with endorphins.

The ultimate lesson we should learn from all this is that what we see on social media is not necessarily real, so we should detach from the idea that we should change apart of us to fit in. We can also learn to improve ourselves whether positive body improvement by working out or meditation.

Don’t forget to do a social media cleanse because it can become toxic at times hearing negativity from people that don’t even know us but have an opinion.

If your not learning something new from anything you do each day you need to do something different so you can grow always stay improving . The best improvement would be spiritual growth learning to change negative things about yourself and realizing that social media is just entertainment and nothing else.

We should all ask ourselves if modern dating makes logical sense in 2020 with feminine minded men.

Because men like Mediocre Tutorials are encouraging feminine behavior in modern day men. This young man has a lot of questionable opinions and statements to say when it comes to women, what they deserve and how men should be treating them that doesn’t line up with what males should be doing when dating women.

When a man (Mediocre Tutorials) is going to make a statement like this about chivalry being dead then you know that they going feminine on us ‘My contention is it’s not yet dead completely but it should be; because it doesn’t provide any value to a man in the dating game today.’ I’m confused as to why a brother like this is saying something like that;isn’t apart of being a man to protect and provide for women. A huge part of chivalry was to protect women and provide for them not excusing a woman’s role in her own life but that’s what a man needs a relationship for but now this feminine man is telling us that this isn’t what men are suppose to be doing.

Which would mean that women really shouldn’t be dating in 2020 because there are no real men left in 2020. Throughout the ages my concept about chivalry may have been one sided because of movies or maybe reading the Bible.According to Genesis 2 man was created before woman . I’m scratching my head as to why God would create a man first give him a garden to take care of with animals to tend to then create the woman after that’s not coincidence at all which would go back to the role of the man in life and relationships.

Men from the beginning were made to provide and protect which is why God made Adam first . Okay so maybe we got people on here who are atheists fine but forget about the Bible.

Think about a man’s real nature in real life a man will get emasculated if a woman earns more than he does or if he loses his job and have a girlfriend. If you think about it if a man would be ashamed of losing his job and being in a relationship when he doesn’t have a job why then are men encouraging ideas of chivalry being dead , women being 50 50 in relationships, , women being lazy because they want the man to play his role?

This is no excuse for a woman not making her own money that’s not what I’m saying but what I’m saying is that if a man ain’t providing protection or providing for any female in his life then he shouldn’t be in a relationship with any female at all. That means he serves no purpose in her life.

If you really analyze it if women were to stop being prostitutes,side chicks and even girlfriends men would be out here thirsty and bothered begging women.

Imagine if all women would stop encouraging men to get between their legs how there would be a drastic change in how they behave towards females in general.

Mediocre Tutorials: ‘I think that for tradition sake there is a time and place but y’all have been iterating and innovating on y’all selves over a couple of decades and a lot of times innovation causes us to switch up how we approach the game they don’t value it don’t do it.’ He also contradicted himself all together at one point stating that women don’t want him to open a door for her and saying that he doesn’t believe in doing chivalrous acts all the time and that it depends on the female if she ‘deserves ‘ it. If you are a man

who really practices chivalry the question of doing these actions should not be half of the way . Men who are real men don’t complain about doing what he should be doing by nature unless he wants to compete with who he sleeps with.

Men who are macho who are practicing chivalry don’t compete with the opposite sex they show them they are worthy to take care of themselves and their partners at the same time. There is no help me foot this bill so I know your worthy to be my girlfriend it’s I’m ready to take on whatever you can pay even if you can’t pay cause I can take care of you all the way. If you become my wife I can handle whatever responsibilities comes with your life.

Chilvalry is doing all the acts that it comes with it’s the whole package it includes all the above things like the need to protect a female is one aspect of chivalry so why then is

Mediocre Tutorials saying :’chivalry for the purpose of romance is different from chivalry for the purpose of defense.’ I’m sorry how so is this case holding a difference from when dating if you are a man isn’t it apart of your nature or are you really a female in a man’s body.

It seems like he’s saying that he would not defend his girlfriend if she was a target of an assault because it all depends on whether she deserves to be protected ;that’s the level of thinking of black men and they say we have evolved and we are innovating yada yada but they have stayed the same and showed us why most feminine black females are deciding to date outside their race because of the type of ignorance and level of thinking that black men are spewing when it comes to dating them.

Say You were in a relationship with a man like mediocre tutorials he would be expecting you to probably pay for everything or pay half the bills. Then at the same time would expect the level of respect that a man who is paying your bills would really be shown .

They want Barbara the builder until she starts pointing out which one of the bills she pays and what she bought on her own . The thing is you can’t get it all if you are a feminine man and if you think that you will they will be a lot of men that are single in their twenties throwing dollar bills at strippers in the club into their sixties.

Some of these men who you see fishing for 50 50 women are the ones who never have children to leave an inheritance and are trolling women on the internet because they secretly are competing with the opposite sex.

It’s a sad existence if a man believes that not having a child to pass down his inheritance to is a good thing. What would be the purpose of life living like a dog just waiting to die and all the things he work for pass away with him it’s useless. If only black men will stop blaming us for why they are not stepping up.

Until they change their thinking they will continue to be enslaved by their own oppressive ways of thinking.

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They always say there is two sides to a story but if you think about it there is always three sides to the story . The Person being accused, the person who does the offense and the real story.

SheraSeven1 is a known YouTuber who encourages young women to date older men and encourages the idea of being a gold digger. Is this really what a older female like her self should be encouraging? Are does she really have a lot of haters just hating?

The whole concept of dating a man older than me that’s in his fifties is beyond me. Okay Shera if I was really looking to date my dad then that is a problem. I strongly believe that Shera has daddy issues she either didn’t grow with both parents in the home or she doesn’t have a good relationship with her dad because this woman be out here acting like she ain’t got no feelings or emotions. Well she is encouraging women to never date a man for love date him to get to his money so of course she is giving the wrong impression of all modern day women today.

This is the real reason why men have stopped dating for love women who would encourage dating a man for his money . Then again some of these men out here using the same tactics that SheraSeven1 out here using on men. If you think about it it is happening on both sides of the spectrum but is this not excuse for why women should be gold diggers?

Apart of being in a relationship however is to achieve stability, a better life and love so if going in a relationship expecting the man to provide is gold digging then it should be gold digging if a man is doing it.

I forgot to mention How fake and loveless SheraSeven1 love life with her husband James looks I’m surprised to believe they even have sex like she looks very unhappy if you ask me.

We are all made to believe that this woman is living a glamorous life but what happens when the camera stops. Online is never the truth because we can use a video to paint what we want people to believe is true and with editing and everything voila the perfect life for her naive followers.

What modern day women should be focusing on is being a better version of herself, improving herself financially whether it be through job or education and then she thinks about having a relationship when she achieved her goals. Women should not be dating a man for just monetary purposes . The next lie she portrays is that she hasn’t slept with any of the men she has dated? That magical perception she wants us to believe than none of these men don’t sleep with her then suddenly he just starts giving her all his money and she lives happily ever after.

This is the lie this woman keeps telling her fans and if you think about it it is far from the truth. The way how these men are programmed to act they all want compensation even when they just go on a date with you once they want to take you home after the date and I’m not talking your house theirs.

We all need to learn from some of the things she says whether it be positive or negative. Use the bad she portrays to improve ourselves to never be that type of way , to enhance apart of you that you fail to work on whether it’s your femininity or any positive attributes she might have but use the lessons she teaches in the right way . The real story is SheraSeven1 should not be a role model for young girls but we can learn from the bad lessons she teaches to not be like her.

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We all know that it ain’t easy in the streets, women are their own bosses now and sometimes they just a regular 9 to 5 chick. Money is an essential part of life to keep it in our pockets. Most of the times it seems like we out here just paying the bills and barely getting by.

If you in your twenties you already know that those years are more forgiving.So be sure that you are always putting up money for a rainy day . You just never know what might happen and you might need some serious cash. This is what some people call a sinking funds.

You can never go wrong when you plan a head financially the rewards are comforting. It is very tempting when you are young and single to just live life as it comes along but living life like this can be very dangerous to your future. It as always been said that you should save half of your paycheck but for me this is never realistic.

We all have bills to pay and other responsibilities that must be provided for before we consider doing anything else so instead of hiding from your landlord. Think of saving 20 usd to 30 dollars a week. This will all add , even 5 dollars a day can really add up . Apart from rainy day savings and money you have in your bank account which always feel like it’s not your money when you place it there. Always have saving out of a bank as they always say never place your eggs in one basket.

Don’t rely on one savings source have more than one ways you put away your bag. Not to mention you females who love dating whatever money you collect from a baller save it. Like think about It a guy should really be investing in your future anyways if he really wants a future with you so save it.

Remember to have many ways you make money too this is how the rich build wealth. Even a 9 to 5 chick can really set herself up for success if she put in the work .There is no time to say how there are so many ways you can make money in 2020 you just have to try.

Women are always being taken advantage of by the opposite sex and people in general so secure your life by securing your bag the only way out of your current situation is to accumulate wealth and knowing how to keep it .

It’s so easy sometimes to accumulate it but sometimes you can get distracted by the devourers including friends who love to party. Don’t be that person who lives to regret but ensure you don’t regret your life.

If you can cut corners like cutting out coffee or any other pleasure you crave until a certain time do it in the end the results can be rewarding.

Finally don’t be such a cheap skate that you don’t enjoy life you are here to enjoy life to the fullest and be happy.

We all know that women are by nature nurturing . It is by nature what they do nuture the thought of putting oneself first as a female seems unorthodox.

Unless you have children ladies please put yourself first. This should be one life lesson you should take into consideration .

Men have always put themselves first in anything with money with their homies and with even sex. Believe they are some selfish creatures.Which is why they cheat, lie and give us the run around.

If a man or anyone else will put themselves first why on earth would you put their needs before yours.

We have been programmed by our mothers to put the needs of others before our needs and it’s so wrong. If you don’t put your needs before others you will realize how unhappy and unfulfilled you will end up becoming.Not only that the same people you put first they will never show you the same respect and selflessness you give. So whatever your desire or dream is to fulfill make sure you do it before you think about doing it for any one else.

This is especially for empathic women who always meet those narcissistic men because either your mother , father or any other relative was a narc. You are losing out on life and happiness when you try to be selfless for them because narcissist don’t care about anything or anyone. There whole lives revolve around selfishness and making you walk on eggshells.

Stop people pleasing it won’t get you any where and don’t let any one make you feel guilty for putting yourself first. Narcissist are are miserable they will do just about anything to fill the evil depressed void in their soulless bodies.

For empathic woman you will always attract users because you give so much of your beautiful soul. Never get trapped in this prison . The universe does not reward good for good it rewards you with lessons that will teach you how the world really works . Okay so how does that make any sense. You will only realize what I’m really saying until you experience it yourself but I really don’t want you to experience this yourself because the lessons are some times really hard.

Women are special, we are strong minded but the more lessons we avoid the better our lives will flourish.

Consider today a blessing but consider tomorrow an opportunity not to miss out because you had to learn a lesson over and over because you different avoid having to learn for yourself.